men are from mars.

hello and assalamualaikum? how's the holiday? hamboii cuti sakan ye koranggg, hehe. but whatever pun, stay safe wherever you are peoples. sekarang banyak perbuatan kejam dari perbuatan mulia kat luar sana tuuu. so just beware of everything okey :) so, since duduk rumah, tv laptop and handphone laa peneman setia. ahaks, bahasa baku sangat haaa, hehe :p so, harini baca blog terfaktab. banyak knowledge yang dapat dari situ, alhamdulillah. sape nak baca, boleh laa google "terfaktab", maka die akan keluar laaa yee. and kalau semangat lagi, boleh beli buku die. (wehh promoter sangat) hehe. but seriously, i want that book. teringin nak ade buku "terfaktab" and "mens from mars and womens from venus". sesapa yang baik hati nak hadiahkan ke kan *kenyit-kenyit mata* hahaha. okey da stop zati, hehe. mari kita straight to the point :)

i bet most of my followers pernah bercinta kan, tak pun sedang dilamun cinta. hikhik. okey, this is especially for the girls, kaum hawa. yang kaum adam jangan ambik hati eh, boleh jugak baca :p so, pernah tak korang alami situasi cmni? masa mula-mula bercinta dulu, hamboi berkepit 24jam. kalau masa tu boleh mntak extra, maybe mintak kot supaya boleh keep in touch lebih lama lagi. haha. bukan korang je, pin point dekat diri sendiri jugak. hehe. tapi pernah tak korang, ade satu-satu masa tu, si en.boyfriend ni kurang keep in touch sangat, kurang texts, calls or myb tweet. dia lebih prefer lepak dgn family/kawan. or tak pun berdota for sape2 yang gamers tuuu. haa pernah tak? haaa jeng jeng jeng. mesti ade kan. dan yang si girlfriend ni mula laah nak start fikir itu ini itu ini. (lagi-lagi untuk yang negative thinker) haha. betul tak? hahaha :p

okey, tadi tu muqadimah semata-mata, haha. so, harini ade terbaca pasal entry ni which is salah satu entry by terfaktab. actly, kaum hawa, korang tau tak yang si kaum adam ni sebenarnya ade masa "cooling off" which is time ni laa, die nak some "me time". die nak relax, nak stay away from everything just for a moment. bukan tak sayang eh, tapi nak masa bersendirian. Bak kata john gray dalam buku, "Men are from mars and women from venus", they want to feel autonomy again. So, sama jelah kte ye. perempuan ade pms and lelaki ade "cooling off" time. we are now officially equal *clap clap* :D

so, da tau kan sekarang kenapa si lelaki kadang-kadang jadi pendiam, ibarat ade emas dalam mulut ataupun ibarat jari melekat dengan gam uhu sampai tak boleh nak text ape sume. its his "cooling time" girlsss. just sementara process ni, janganlah kita si perempuan kejar die dari sudut fizikal, emosi or mental. jangan laah korang pegi ikut and spy die smpai ke kedai mamak ke sebab kes risau. or janganlah korang tanya die soalan yang sama 10 kali dalam masa 1 hari, korang bosan tanya and dia pulak penat menjawab. and jangan jugak dalam time ni, korang try jadi attention seeker orang lain. (if you know what i mean) mihihihi :D

plus, korang jangan laa "hukum" si en.boyfriend tu when he's back to normal. janganlah tak reply text, taknak angkat call. mogok katanya. (tuding jari dekat diri sendiri jugak) haha. in everything, before nak buat, try to put ourself in peoples situation. yang penting, just keep your positive vibes with you and keep your prayers together with you. insyaAllah everything will be fine :)

kita manusia tak pernah perfect. i admit, saya orang yang macam ni. i get insecure easily. but lepas ni, i try to change myself to be a better person, insyaAllah. kalau die boleh terima kita baik buruk, try to accept him as well kan. kalau die boleh bagi masa untuk kita cool down and sometimes to be alone, why not us? understanding, tolerating and trust is the base. prayers and faith is the strength. insyaAllah everything will be fine :) so, sampai sini je kot. ni pun da panjang lebar da membebel. thanks untuk spe yang sudi baca sampai habis. credit to "terfaktab" blog. sorry kalau ade terkasar or tersalah ape2. see u later peeps, xx :*

last, a quotations from John Gray.

“men are like rubber bands. When a man loves a woman,

 periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.”